Thursday, February 09, 2006

Ira Update

= Good = OK = Poor



Ira is doing OK

I spent Tuesday night with Joe and Ira at the hospital. When I arrived the doctors and nurses (about 7 of them) were busy "putting Ira back together" after he had extubated himself. Joe was looking on the whole scene understandably concerned, but also with a look of "been here before."

Joe and I had a good few hours talking, watching basketball (Duke vs. NC), and eating taco soup. At about 9:30pm Ira started to wake up, and for the next seven hours struggled to calm down and fall asleep. I only stayed until about 12:30am, but Joe was by Ira's bed until 4:30am when the next round of his methadone treatment was administered; Ira succumbed to exhaustion only after he received the medicine that would allow him to finally rest easy.

Personally, it was one of the most difficult and heartbreaking things I have ever seen, and I found myself weak and scared standing by Ira's bedside. I cannot comprehend how Joe, Laura, and their mothers are able to stand by him hour after hour and in moments like this. I guess only the fierce love of a parent and some special indwelling of God empowers them to stand.

To my knowledge Ira had a good evening last night (Allison visited Laura), but still struggled at times in-between his methadone treatments. Thank you for your prayers, support, and grace.

Jason

5 Comments:

Blogger Stacy said...

Thanks for being there when we cannot. And thank you for posting in Joe's absense.

4:20 PM  
Blogger julie said...

Thanks for standing with them even when it is hard. May God bless you and may Joe and Laura feels God's presence.

6:13 PM  
Blogger Jana said...

I think you're right, Jason: "Some special indwelling of God empowers them to stand." Eloquent and insightful. We love and pray for you, Hays and Isbell families.

9:09 AM  
Blogger Vicki said...

Thank you, Jason. Your perspective is unique from Joe's.

Always praying for Ira and his family. May God release him from this addiction. It seems the unfairest of the unfair.

11:22 AM  
Blogger Bradford L. Stevens said...

We look forward to that thumb pointing up!

12:01 AM  

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